I do to an extend believe in fate/ destiny. We are all dealt a hand of cards in life and it is how we play the cards that determines our fate.
I myself was dealt a particularly difficult hand of cards. I was born with a heart defect. This you could argue was my destiny. For whatever reason. You could argue I have “bad karma” or whatever. It has had a detrimental effect on relationships.
If you also look into numerology I was also born on the 13th which is deemed very unlucky.
So does our specific date and time of birth distinguish our destiny or is it more biological and physical?
Something determines who we are and why we are born into a specific body. I’ve often felt reincarnation is the best way to describe this. We have good karma we go up in the game and bad karma we go down.
I often thought about this is great depth. Were my circumstances in life “pre destined”? Could I have done anything to improve my circumstances and life chances? I doubt it.
Maybe if I had different letters in my name i would have been assigned to a different form at school and met different people.
I would still probably have been bullied for my disadvantage. What i can control is my fate and how I work things to my advantage. I can transmute my pain into power.